Having spent many hours looking at how to fix the feelings that I have felt towards myslf, or aiding others in bringing about healng,  I have concluded that the way may of us act, react and respond is due to the way of our childhood and the unhealed Inner Child.  Many of us say that we don't want to turn out like our parents, yet how many times in parenting or just being an adult have you heard your parents' voice in the words that have come tumbling out of your mouth.  Is it that we reconize our parents' wisdom? Or is it that phrases are burned into our memories and that they become a standard response without us even questioning what we are saying to ourselves or to others.  I'm not saying that everything that our parents did or said was wrong.  Many of us have had extremely hapy childhoods, with very fond memories, but that is not to say that our parents brought us up with widsom and forethough.  We are all doing what is within our limitations.

 

The time comes within a lot of us though, when we are frozen in fear, or find ourselves being abusive to people, or act as a doormat, or being able to give so much of ourselves but cannot accept people helping or supporting us.  When you come  to  realise these behaviours in yourself, you can then start to go back over your history, to find out why.  Why is it that we end up in less than satisfactory relationships or friendships or careers?  Why do we settle for less than we deserve.  Although some people can have great relationships, but their working life leaves much to be desired, where they find themseves unable to stand up to the bully of a boss or work extra hours for no pay, just to please thers.  Likewise, you may go to work and excel, but have a realy unhappy existence at home. If you are very lucky (or indeed very balanced), then you may find that life is fabulous, and therefore you can stop reading now!!  If ths is the case, then you are in a very small minority.  If we all came to realise how important it is to be a good parent, and use positive parenting, then we may just be very successful in raising balanced children, who are bold enough to go out into the world and be everything that they have the potential to be, enjoying very deep, understanding, passionate and close bonds with tthose they meet.

 

With every part of our Inner Child that remains unhealed, is an experience out there that will come to us, to heal that part of use, so thatwe can grow and become whole.  Mostly, our families can give us the biggest lessons of all.  If we grow up and separate ourselves from our family, without healing, then we will no doubt attract similar people into our lives that will give us the same lessons.  As a pattern of life, we will draw to us what we needs to be learned.  If you don't learn from experience, you will have them again and again, in different forms, with different people, until you say 'I'm sick of this.  I'm going to change this.  I'm going to make sure I receive as much as I giveand that my life is in balance'.  Then will come the test.  Can you put this into practise.  Life is a  mirror reflecting back to us what energy we are putting out. 

 

The problem of imbalance comes down to masculine and feminine energy balance.  If you are being a giver and not able to receive freely, then you are working with too much masculine energy.  You will probably  find yourself doing a lot for others while receiving very little in return, or you will be very dynamic and unable to rest, relax and unwind.  The feminine side is still, thoughtful, inactive, intuitive, emotive and passive.  If you have too much feminine energy, you will find that you have high expectations of others, without giving too much in return, puting yourself and your nees before anyone ele.  Often your response to someone sking for help or a favour is an automatic 'no'.  When the Inner Child work is done and  healed, you will find it easier to have a healthy balance of both these energies and to be able to give and receive freely, without there being a 'price tag' attached to all that you do.

 

When we have worked with the Inner Child, we then work with our ancestral lines.  This is a very powerful process and works on healing back through your lineage and also forewards to your successors.  Alot of our behavioural patterning and emotional blockages come through the ancestral line.  Our parents learn through their parents and so on, and you are the product of this.   When we have healed the child within, we can then send love and healing as adults to those who have gone before, which can break any chains of negative and harmful behaviour and emotions.

 

Workshops are run from 10 a.m until approx 4.30 p.m and are held on a weekend.                                                                                               If you would like to host a workshop at your home or workspace, please get in touch as this can be arranged.  Please note, if you are at a long distance away, there is a minimum number of 8 people required, with a deposit of £10 per person.

 

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